vaginismus

What is vaginismus

Vaginismus is defined as recurrent or persistent involuntary spasm of the musculature of the outer third of the vagina, which interferes with sexual intercourse and causes distress and interpersonal difficulty 1. Vaginismus causes the muscles around your vagina to tighten involuntarily. This can cause some pain and discomfort. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 5th ed., (DSM-5) now addresses dyspareunia and vaginismus as one entity, characterized by pain, anxiety, problems with penetration, or a combination of these, rather than as separate conditions 2.

Vaginismus is a psychologic disorder manifested by fear and anxiety to penetration 3 and a physical disorder as noted by vaginal spasm 4 and is distinct from other sexual pain disorders such as vulvodynia or vestibulodynia 5. The diagnosis of vaginismus is made by history 5.

Vaginismus can occur whether you have had sex or not. Vaginismus usually occurs when the genital area is touched. This can be before sexual intercourse, before attempting to insert a tampon, or during a gynecological examination, for example.

Vaginismus doesn’t necessarily affect your ability to get aroused and enjoy other types of sexual contact.

Vaginismus is an uncommon condition. Vaginismus seems to be quite uncommon when looking at its prevalence in the general population. However, because of the shame and secrecy associated with the condition it may be underreported and on the basis of clinic samples, it would appear that vaginismus is not that uncommon after all. Vaginismus is also believed to be a leading cause of the nonconsummation of marriage.

There are several reasons why someone may experience vaginismus. These include physical and psychological factors, like:

  • childbirth
  • medical conditions like UTIs (urinary tract infections), yeast infections (thrush), chronic pain syndromes
  • rape, sexual abuse or assault in the past
  • a painful examination in the past
  • unpleasant sexual intercourse
  • fear of getting pregnant
  • fear the vagina may be too small for any penetration

Other things that can cause women pain during sex include:

  • vulvodynia
  • thrush
  • sexually transmitted infections (STIs)
  • menopause
  • a bad reaction to condoms, soap or shampoo
  • pelvic inflammatory disease
  • endometriosis

Treatment of vaginismus depends on what is causing it. Vaginismus treatments include the widespread use of vaginal dilators, physical therapy with or without biofeedback, biofeedback, sex and relationship counseling, psychotherapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, therapist-aided exposure, hypnotherapy, and lubricants 5.

When to see a doctor

See a doctor or go to a sexual health clinic if:

  • you find it hard inserting a tampon into your vagina
  • you struggle with vaginal penetration during sex
  • you feel burning or stinging pain during sex

These are common signs of vaginismus.

Types of vaginismus

There are 2 types of vaginismus:

  1. Primary Vaginismus occurs where a woman has never, at any time, been able to have pain-free sexual intercourse.
  2. Secondary Vaginismus occurs when a woman develops vaginismus after having been able to engage in pleasurable pain free intercourse previously; this is usually due to trauma or surgery 6.

Vaginismus causes

Vaginismus is a sexual problem. Vaginismus has several possible causes, including:

  • Past sexual trauma or abuse
  • Mental health factors
  • A response that develops due to physical pain
  • Intercourse
  • Fear that your vagina is too small
  • A bad first sexual experience
  • An unpleasant medical examination
  • A belief that sex is shameful or wrong
  • A painful medical condition, like thrush

Sometimes no cause can be found.

Classical psychoanalytic theory conceptualized vaginismus as a conversion disorder caused by unresolved psychosexual conflicts in early childhood 7. Vaginismic women have been characterized as fixated or regressed to the pre-oedipal or oedipal stages 8. Vaginismus is believed to be a psycho-physiologic disorder due to fear from actual or imagined negative experiences with penetration and/or organic pathology. Women with vaginismus have also been noted to have a lack of sex education 8.

Contributing factors of vaginismus

Vaginismus is due to involuntary tightening of the muscles in the vagina, these women have no control over it and also do not realise that this is happening. Therefore, for most women, vaginismus comes completely unexpected. It is like an automatic reflex, similar to the fact that when blowing into someone’s eyes, it causes the eyelids to shut.

All the muscles in the human body learn progressively how to behave appropriately. For example, when babies learn to walk it requires attention focus and effort, however slowly it becomes an automatic response, which does not require any conscious focus. Similarly, the muscles in the vagina of a woman with Vaginismus have unconsciously learned an automatic response to penetration, which is to spasm. So these muscles have, for some reason, developed a memory that penetration is not desirable and should not be allowed.

It is important to remember that vaginismus is not due to a physical abnormality of the genitals. Woman with vaginismus have normal vaginas and they are not too small to fit a penis.

Generally woman with vaginismus seem to have some unhealthy sexual messages that result in the reflex of these muscles. These messages can be conscious or unconscious.

Potential contributing factors are:

  • Fear of penetration, which can rise to levels of a phobia
  • Fear of pregnancy
  • Fear of pain
  • Lack of sex education
  • Past sexual abuse
  • Past sexual trauma
  • Negative sexual attitudes
  • Parental fears
  • High anxiety
  • Religious background
  • Violence
  • Abusive partner
  • Difficulty to trust
  • Fear of commitment

Vaginismus can co-exist with various medical conditions. Vaginismus can also continue to be present even after a medical condition has been treated. It is important to rule out any of these medical conditions.

Some of these medical conditions or additional causes of sexual pain, dyspareunia, are:

  • Ovarian Cysts
  • Urinary Tract Infection (UTI)/Interstitial Cystitis
  • Vulvodynia
  • Pelvic Inflammatory Disease
  • Genital/Pelvic Tumors
  • Vaginal Atrophy
  • Vaginal Dryness/ Inadequate Lubrication
  • Childbirth trauma
  • Vulvar Cancer
  • Vaginal Infections
  • Sexually transmitted infections (STIs)
  • Skin conditions, such as Eczema/Psoriasis

Vaginismus symptoms

Symptoms of vaginismus vary according to the severity of vaginismus 9. Symptoms include fear, anxiety, and pain of vaginal penetration; inability to use a tampon (often noted at a young age); inability to remove a tampon that gets “stuck” (the proximal portion of the tampon swells with blood and cannot be extracted through the area of introital spasm, at times necessitating removal under anesthesia); severe pain with penetration; complaints that attempted intercourse is like “hitting a wall”; and an inability to tolerate a gynecologic examination. These symptoms help differentiate vaginismus from vulvodynia and provoked vestibulodynia and are suggestive of spasm at the level of the introitus 5.

The main vaginismus symptoms are:

  • Difficult or painful vaginal penetration during sex. Vaginal penetration may not be possible.
  • Vaginal pain during sexual intercourse or a pelvic exam.

Women with vaginismus often become anxious about sexual intercourse. This does not mean they cannot become sexually aroused. Many women with this problem can have orgasms when the clitoris is stimulated.

Consequences of vaginismus

Emotional hardship

Vaginimus is an extremely distressing condition. It is experienced slightly differently for each vaginismus sufferer, however common feelings may include:

  • Confused
  • Frustrated
  • Feeling lonely/isolated
  • Angry
  • Sad/Depressed
  • Shame/Embarrassment
  • Scared to start a new relationship
  • Worried about partner’s feelings/thoughts

Most women with vaginismus feel confused about what is happening to them and are not sure where to go for support. They may feel as if they are the only one suffering from vaginismus and may not understand why or what to do. When in a relationship they may feel they are a disappointment to their partner. When not in a relationship, they may feel embarrassed or scared to approach a new partner or start a new relationship and therefore it is common for them to isolate themselves.

Relationship Issues

Currently in a relationship:

There is no doubt that Vaginismus has a significant impact on sexual relationships.

Although Vaginismus is often considered a women’s problem, it is essentially a couple’s problem and it may even be a relationship deal-breaker.

It is commonly seen that couples seek therapy because vaginismus has become highly problematic or when they want to have children.

Partners of women with vaginismus

Partners of women with vaginismis may feel confused as to what is happening exactly and may not understand why sexual intercourse is being avoided.

Partners may:

  • Feel concerned about their partner’s interest in them/physical attraction to them
  • Be worried about doing something wrong sexually and not being able to get their partner aroused enough to enjoy sexual pleasure
  • Be worried about hurting their partner
  • Are distressed about their partner’s wellbeing
  • Feel frustrated about not being able to be intimate with their partner
  • Be confused about where to go for support

Currently NOT in a Relationship

When not in a relationship, vaginismus may prevent a woman from approaching new partners or starting a new relationship. They may feel ashamed and embarrassed and therefore isolate themselves.

It is important to remember that vaginismus can be worked on without having a partner. This may increase your confidence and your self-esteem to feel empowered to enter in a new relationship or to start meeting people again.

Vaginismus diagnosis

You can ask to be seen by a female doctor and you can bring someone you trust along for support.

Your doctor will ask you about your symptoms and may ask to examine your vagina. A pelvic exam can confirm the diagnosis. A medical history and complete physical exam are needed to look for other causes of pain with sexual intercourse (dyspareunia).

The examination is usually very quick. Your doctor will take a quick look to rule out other conditions, like an infection.

It’s unlikely they’ll need to perform an internal examination of your vagina.

If your doctor thinks you have vaginismus, you may be referred to a specialist, such as a sex therapist.

Vaginismus treatment

A health care team made up of a gynecologist, physical therapist, sex therapist and sexual counselor can help with treatment.

Vaginismus does not get better on its own. It requires some commitment from you.

Overall the management of vaginismus involves having the woman learn to control her pelvic floor muscles.

Treatment usually focuses on:

  • managing your feelings around penetration
  • exercises to gradually get you used to penetration

Treatment involves a combination of physical therapy, education, counseling, and exercises such as pelvic floor muscle contraction and relaxation (Kegel exercises). It has been recognized that most women or couples dealing with vaginismus will benefit from counseling.

Treatment is initially done under the guidance of specialized therapists. You’ll then usually be expected to practise some of the exercises at home.

Possible treatmentsDetails
Psychosexual therapya type of talking therapy that aims to help you understand and change your feelings about your body and sex
Relaxation techniquesmindfulness, breathing and gentle touching exercises to help you learn to relax the vaginal muscles
Pelvic floor exercisessqueezing and releasing exercises to gain control of the vaginal muscles
Sensate focusexercises to help with your relaxation during sex and increase your sex drive (libido)
Vaginal trainerssmooth tampon-shaped objects in different sizes to help you gradually get used to having something inserted into your vagina

Vaginal dilation exercises using plastic dilators are recommended. This method helps to make the person less sensitive to vaginal penetration. These exercises should be done under the direction of a sex therapist, physical therapist, or other health care provider. Therapy should involve the partner and can slowly lead to more intimate contact. Intercourse may ultimately be possible.

Treatment is usually effective and you may see progress in a matter of weeks.

You will get information from your provider. Topics may include:

  • Sexual anatomy
  • Sexual response cycle
  • Common myths about sex

Vaginismus self care

There are a number of self care techniques that can help treat vaginismus.

Get to know your body. Have some time to yourself to explore your body and what feels good for you. Make sure you are relaxed, and start feeling yourself around the genital area.

Get used to what it feels like in and around the outer part of your vagina before trying to penetrate yourself. Once you are comfortable and relaxed with that, try inserting your finger gently inside your vagina. It may take days or weeks to get to a stage where you feel comfortable enough to do this. Once you can do this, feel around inside your vagina with your finger, pushing further in very gently.

You may want to try inserting a lubricated tampon instead. Use the same method, making sure you’re calm and relaxed before inserting anything.

If you have a sexual partner, you may want to ask them to touch your genitals gently, to try and get used to them being around your vagina. Again, this will probably take time before you feel comfortable enough to be penetrated with a finger.

When you reach a stage where you want to try sexual intercourse, take things slowly and don’t rush anything.

If these methods do not help, contact your doctor who may be able to refer you to a sexual health specialist.

If you are in pain, get advice on medicines you can take.

Vaginismus physical therapy

Some women with Vaginismus may benefit from physical therapy. Physical therapy for Vaginismus does include musculoskeletal, vulvar and pelvic floor assessments via physical examinations and includes manual therapy of various hands-on techniques to treat musculoskeletal abnormalities, postural and skeletal asymmetries and soft tissue immobility. One common technique used is the application of trigger point massage in the pelvic area and transvaginal.

Vaginismus exercises

Kegel exercises also called pelvic floor muscle training exercises, are exercises to make your pelvic floor muscles stronger. The pelvic floor are the muscles that hold up your bladder, rectum and uterus (womb) and help keep them from prolapsing (a condition where organs fall down or slip out of place), resulting in urinary or fecal leakage (incontinence).

Kegel exercises (pelvic floor muscle training exercises) can help both men and women who have problems with urine leakage or bowel control. Kegel exercises (pelvic floor muscle training exercises) can also make sex better.

Building up your pelvic muscles with Kegel exercises (pelvic floor muscle training exercises) can help with your bladder and bowel control. Kegel exercises strengthen the pelvic muscles — the muscles under the uterus, bladder, and bowel (large intestine) and don’t require any equipment. Once you learn how to do “Kegel exercises” you can Kegel anywhere. You can do Kegel exercises while lying down, sitting at a desk, or standing up.

The trick is finding the right muscles to squeeze (see Figures 1 and 2 for reference). Your doctor or nurse can help make sure you are squeezing the right muscles. Your doctor may refer you to a specially trained physical therapist who will teach you to find and strengthen the sphincter muscles. Learning when to squeeze these muscles can also help stop the bladder spasms that cause urge incontinence. After about 6 to 8 weeks, you should notice that you have fewer leaks and more bladder control.

To do Kegel exercises, you just squeeze your pelvic floor muscles. The part of your body including your hip bones is the pelvic area. At the bottom of the pelvis, several layers of muscle stretch between your legs. The muscles attach to the front, back, and sides of the pelvic bone (see Figures 1 and 2).

The pelvic floor has several functions:

  • it supports your pelvic and abdominal organs, especially when you are standing or straining;
  • it helps your urethra stay closed when you cough, sneeze or strain;
  • it controls leakage of wind or motions from your lower bowel;
  • it helps to heighten sexual awareness by tightening during intercourse.

A weak pelvic floor gives you less control so that you may have urinary stress incontinence (urine leakage) or fecal incontinence (fecal leakage) when you exercise, lift, cough, laugh hard or sneeze.

Often women leak urine when they are pregnant or after they have given birth.

Female athletes of all ages sometimes have urine leakage during strenuous sports activities.

A man’s pelvic floor muscles support the bladder and bowel and affect sexual function. Kegel exercises can help strengthen these muscles.

The pelvic floor muscles can be weakened by:

  • pregnancy and childbirth (in women);
  • operations on other organs within the pelvis (e.g. the bowel);
  • damage to the nerves of your pelvic floor muscles (by disease, injury, surgery or radiotherapy);
  • repeated straining to empty your bowels, usually due to constipation;
  • a chronic cough such as a smoker’s cough, chronic bronchitis or asthma;
  • being overweight;
  • lack of general fitness;
  • ageing;
  • lack of exercise and the menopause.

Muscles of the pelvic floor

The pelvic floor also called the pelvic diaphragm (Figure 1), is a complex layer of muscles and ligaments which stretches like a hammock from the pubic bone at the front of your pelvis to the coccyx at the bottom your spine.

The pelvic floor is a sheet consisting of two muscles, the levator ani and the small coccygeus (ischiococcygeus). The pelvic floor supports the pelvic organs, seals the inferior opening of the bony pelvis, and lifts superiorly to help release feces during defecation. The pelvic floor is pierced by the rectum and urethra (the tube for urine) and (in females) by the vagina.

The muscles of the pelvic floor are the levator ani and ischiococcygeus. Along with the fascia covering their internal and external surfaces, these muscles are referred to as the pelvic diaphragm, which stretches from the pubis anteriorly to the coccyx posteriorly, and from one lateral wall of the pelvis to the other. This arrangement gives the pelvic diaphragm the appearance of a funnel suspended from its attachments. The pelvic diaphragm separates the pelvic cavity above from the perineum below. The anal canal and urethra pierce the pelvic diaphragm in both sexes, and the vagina also goes through it in females. The three components of the levator ani muscle are the pubococcygeus, puborectalis, and iliococcygeus. Figure 1 shows these muscles in the female and Figure 2 illustrates them in the male. The levator ani is the largest and most important muscle of the pelvic floor. It supports the pelvic viscera and resists the inferior thrust that accompanies increases in intraabdominal pressure during functions such as forced exhalation, coughing, vomiting, urination, and defecation. The muscle also functions as a sphincter at the anorectal junction, urethra, and vagina. In addition to assisting the levator ani, the ischiococcygeus pulls the coccyx anteriorly after it has been pushed posteriorly during defecation or childbirth.

The body region inferior to the pelvic floor is the perineum. In the anterior half of the perineum is a triangular sheet of muscle called the urogenital diaphragm. It contains the external urethral sphincter muscle, which surrounds the urethra. You use this muscle voluntarily to prevent urination. Just inferior to the urogenital diaphragm is the superficial perineal space, which contains muscles (bulbospongiosus, ischiocavernosus) that help maintain erection of the penis and clitoris. In the posterior half of the perineum, circling the anus, lies the external anal sphincter. This muscle is used voluntarily to prevent defecation. Just anterior to this sphincter, at the exact midpoint of the perineum, is the central tendon. Many perineal muscles insert on this strong tendon and, in so doing, are able to support the heavy organs in the pelvis.

Figure 1. Pelvic floor female

pelvic floor female

How do you do Kegel exercises

To do Kegel exercises, you just squeeze your pelvic floor muscles. The part of your body including your hip bones is the pelvic area. At the bottom of the pelvis, several layers of muscle stretch between your legs. The muscles attach to the front, back, and sides of the pelvic bone. Kegel exercises are designed to make your pelvic floor muscles stronger. These are the muscles that hold up your bladder and help keep it from leaking.

A pelvic floor muscle training exercise is like pretending that you have to urinate, and then holding it. You relax and tighten the muscles that control urine flow. It is important to find the right muscles to tighten.

Find the right muscles. Try one of the following ways to find the right muscles to squeeze.

  1. Imagine that you are trying to stop passing gas. Squeeze the muscles you would use. If you sense a “pulling” feeling, you are squeezing the right muscles for pelvic exercises.
  2. Imagine that you are sitting on a marble and want to pick up the marble with your vagina. Imagine “sucking” the marble into your vagina.
  3. Lie down and put your finger inside your vagina. Squeeze as if you were trying to stop urine from coming out. If you feel tightness on your finger, you are squeezing the right pelvic muscles.

The next time you have to urinate, start to go and then stop. Feel the muscles in your vagina, bladder, or anus get tight and move up. These are the pelvic floor muscles. If you feel them tighten, you have done the exercise right.

If you are still not sure whether you are tightening the right muscles, keep in mind that all of the muscles of the pelvic floor relax and contract at the same time. Because these muscles control the bladder, rectum, and vagina, the following tips may help:

  • Women: Insert a finger into your vagina. Tighten the muscles as if you are holding in your urine, then let go. You should feel the muscles tighten and move up and down.

It is very important that you keep the following muscles relaxed while doing pelvic floor muscle training exercises:

  • Abdominal
  • Buttocks (the deeper, anal sphincter muscle should contract)
  • Thigh

If you’re having trouble doing Kegel exercises, don’t be embarrassed to ask for help. Your doctor or other health care provider can give you important feedback so that you learn to isolate and exercise the correct muscles.

In some cases, vaginal weighted cones or biofeedback might help. A woman can also strengthen these muscles by using a vaginal cone, which is a weighted device that is inserted into the vagina. To use a vaginal cone, you insert it into your vagina and use pelvic muscle contractions to hold it in place during your daily activities. During a biofeedback session, your doctor or other health care provider inserts a pressure sensor into your vagina or rectum. As you relax and contract your pelvic floor muscles, a monitor will measure and display your pelvic floor activity.

If you are unsure whether you are doing the pelvic floor muscle training correctly, you can use biofeedback and electrical stimulation to help find the correct muscle group to work.

  • Biofeedback is a method of positive reinforcement. Electrodes are placed on the abdomen and along the anal area. Some therapists place a sensor in the vagina in women or anus in men to monitor the contraction of pelvic floor muscles.
  • A monitor will display a graph showing which muscles are contracting and which are at rest. The therapist can help find the right muscles for performing pelvic floor muscle training exercises.

Let your doctor, nurse, or therapist help you. Many people have trouble finding the right muscles. Your doctor, nurse, or therapist can check to make sure you are doing the exercises correctly. You can also exercise by using special weights or biofeedback. Ask your health care team about these exercise aids.

Don’t squeeze other muscles at the same time. Be careful not to tighten your stomach, legs, or other muscles. Squeezing the wrong muscles can put more pressure on your bladder control muscles. Just squeeze the pelvic muscle. Don’t hold your breath.

Repeat, but don’t overdo it. At first, find a quiet spot to practice—your bathroom or bedroom—so you can concentrate. Lie on the floor. Pull in the pelvic muscles and hold for a count of 3. Then relax for a count of 3. Work up to 10 to 15 repeats each time you exercise. Use the Exercise Log below to keep track of your sessions.

Do your pelvic exercises at least three times a day. Every day, use three positions: lying down, sitting, and standing. You can exercise while lying on the floor, sitting at a desk, or standing in the kitchen. Using all three positions makes the muscles strongest.

Be patient. Don’t give up. It’s just 5 minutes, three times a day. You may not feel your bladder control improve until after 3 to 6 weeks. Still, most women do notice an improvement after a few weeks.

Performing Kegel Exercises/Pelvic Floor Exercises

  1. Begin by emptying your bladder.
  2. Tighten the pelvic floor muscles and hold for a count of 10.
  3. Relax the muscles completely for a count of 10.
  4. Do 10 repetitions, 3 to 5 times a day (morning, afternoon, and night).

You can do these exercises at any time and place. Most people prefer to do the exercises while lying down or sitting in a chair. After 4 to 6 weeks, most people notice some improvement. It may take as long as 3 months to see a major change.

After a couple of weeks, you can also try doing a single pelvic floor contraction at times when you are likely to leak (for example, while getting out of a chair).

A word of caution: Some people feel that they can speed up the progress by increasing the number of repetitions and the frequency of exercises. However, over-exercising can instead cause muscle fatigue and increase urine leakage.

If you feel any discomfort in your abdomen or back while doing these exercises, you are probably doing them wrong. Breathe deeply and relax your body when you do these exercises. Make sure you are not tightening your stomach, thigh, buttock, or chest muscles.

When done the right way, pelvic floor muscle exercises have been shown to be very effective at improving urinary continence.

There are physical therapists specially trained in pelvic floor muscle training. Many people benefit from formal physical therapy.

Kegel Exercise Log

Week: ______________

My Pelvic Muscle Exercise Log

Sunday

  • I exercised my pelvic muscles ____ times.
  • I spent ____ minutes exercising.
  • At each exercise session, I squeezed my pelvic muscles ____ times.

Monday

  • I exercised my pelvic muscles ____ times.
  • I spent ____ minutes exercising.
  • At each exercise session, I squeezed my pelvic muscles ____ times.

Tuesday

  • I exercised my pelvic muscles ____ times.
  • I spent ____ minutes exercising.
  • At each exercise session, I squeezed my pelvic muscles ____ times.

Wednesday

  • I exercised my pelvic muscles ____ times.
  • I spent ____ minutes exercising.
  • At each exercise session, I squeezed my pelvic muscles ____ times.

Thursday

  • I exercised my pelvic muscles ____ times.
  • I spent ____ minutes exercising.
  • At each exercise session, I squeezed my pelvic muscles ____ times.

Friday

  • I exercised my pelvic muscles ____ times.
  • I spent ____ minutes exercising.
  • At each exercise session, I squeezed my pelvic muscles ____ times.

Saturday

  • I exercised my pelvic muscles ____ times.
  • I spent ____ minutes exercising.
  • At each exercise session, I squeezed my pelvic muscles ____ times.

Use this sheet as a master for making copies that you can use to record your exercises week after week.

Dilation, Dilators and Home Care

Many protocols exist regarding dilation recommendations to overcome vaginismus. More than 50% of women attempted the use of dilators and were unable to progress to comfortable penetration because, too often, not enough time was spent dilating. Regardless of the type of treatment, dilation is an important part of the recovery process. Women have mentioned repeatedly that they hate to dilate and even patients who went through this rigorous program sometimes failed to dilate for long enough periods. The dilation instructions are summarized as follows.

The Procedure

The procedure involves Botox injections plus separate injections of 0.25% bupivacaine 18 mL with 1:400,000 epinephrine divided into 1-mL increments along the length of the right and left submucosal lateral vaginal walls (9 mL per side) from the level of the cervix to the introitus, to allow patients to wake up pain free with a large dilator in place. No injections were delivered anteriorly or posteriorly to help avoid urinary and rectal incontinence. Conscious sedation was needed during vaginal injections and dilation, although, rarely, women with less severe vaginismus tolerated the procedure with no sedation. The patient was progressively dilated with the #4 dilator (3-inch circumference), the #5 dilator (4-inch circumference), and then, when possible, the #6 dilator (5-inch circumference) and reassessed with digital examination. Sometimes it was physically impossible to insert the #6 dilator. Approximately 10% to 15% of women required release of a constricting hymenal ring noted to be present around the circumference of the introitus (not to be confused with an intact hymen) with a small snip or the removal of a small triangular wedge on the left and right lateral sides of the ring. This procedure results in a small amount of bleeding that can be controlled with pressure. Hymenectomy was not needed in any of the patients. The procedure was concluded with bimanual examination and reinsertion of a #5 or #6 indwelling dilator, and the patient was awakened and transported to the recovery area (Figure 2). Operative time was approximately 30 minutes.

First Month After Procedure

  • Dilate 2 hours a day, 1 hour in the morning and 1 hour in the evening, or 2 hours at any one sitting. Advance to larger dilators as able until the #5 or #6 dilator becomes comfortable.

Second Month After Procedure

  • Decrease dilation to 1 hour a day and advance to larger sizes.

Third Month After Procedure

  • Dilate 15 to 30 minutes a day.

One Year After Procedure

Women with severe vaginismus had a higher rate of recurrence if they stopped dilating by approximately 6 months. For this reason, even 10 to 15 minutes of dilation every day or two is of value.

It is helpful for the partner to assist with dilation to help transition to intercourse physically and psychologically.

Advancing to Intercourse

Postprocedure counseling includes a discussion of the following items. Attempts at intercourse should be delayed until at least the #5 dilator can be inserted easily. It is helpful to dilate with the #5 or #6 dilator for approximately 1 hour before to attempting first-time intercourse. For partners who have larger penises, #7 (6-inch circumference) and #8 (7-inch circumference) dilators are available. During these first attempts at intercourse, patients and their partners are taught to penetrate with no more than the penile tip because women with severe vaginismus are fragile at this juncture and often have considerable fear. Men also are vulnerable in that erectile dysfunction might be noted including loss of erection and premature ejaculation. Everything possible is done to help remove the pressure of this moment. Once penile tip penetration is achieved comfortably, the couple can advance to full penetration; however, thrusting is discouraged because this can be a setback for the woman. Women with severe vaginismus might note “leg lock,” the involuntary closure of the thighs in anticipation of penetration. The “spooning position” with entry from behind has been found to be helpful in overcoming leg lock. Women are encouraged to try different positions during their dilation and attempts at coitus to find their comfort zone.

Figure 2. Vaginismus vaginal dilators

Vaginismus vaginal dilators

Footnote: Panel A shows Pacik borosilicate glass dilators sizes 3 to 8 (right to left). Panel B shows circumferences and lengths of Pacik borosilicate glass dilators.

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Vaginismus Botox injections therapy

The successful use of Botox (onabotulinumtoxinA) injections to treat secondary vaginismus was first described as a case report in 1997 5 and later developed by different investigators 5. Abbott et al. 10 using a placebo-controlled study of onabotulinumtoxinA showed that all eight women who had onabotulinumtoxinA 25 U injected into the bulbospongiosum achieved intercourse compared with none of the five women in the placebo group, with no recurrence or reinjection in the follow-up period of 8 to 14 months. Ghazizadeh and Nikzad 11 used Dysport (abobotulinumtoxinA) to treat 23 women with Lamont grade 3 and 4 refractory vaginismus 12 and reported a 75% success rate of pain-free intercourse in these women were followed for a mean of 12.3 months (range = 2–24)

Figure 3. Vaginismus Botox injections therapy

Vaginismus Botox injections therapy

Footnote: Submucosal injections of Botox to the bulbospongiosum, on each side, using hymenal fragments as a landmark. The needle is bent 30° at the hub for ease of injections. Bupivacaine injections are not shown.

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Vaginismus prognosis

Women who are treated by a sex therapy specialist can very often overcome this problem.

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